Bookends
September 1st, 2010Today is the 16th anniversary of my mom’s death. She was a mere 53 years old when she passed, but I distinctly remember her looking like she was 80. I’ve always thought of her passing as her body just being done. It had taken all it could and needed to be at rest. And I know that I was in her thoughts to the very end because of the card she sent to Norway where I was for my 22nd birthday. I now keep this treasured card in our curios cabinet and read it when I just need to hear Mom’s voice.
I called this post bookends because it just hit me that on my 16th birthday, she was right there with me as I went to get my driver’s license, which I renewed today. Now we’re 16 years to the day beyond when she left me / us. Curious.
In parting, take a listen to the classic Simon and Garfunkel song, Old Friends. “Preserve your memories. They’re all that’s left you.”









